10 Best Floggers [Buyer Guide]

Have you been turned on by the thought of being spanked? Have you ever considered turning things up a notch with your spouse? Many people get weak at the knees at the idea of panties being removed and using a firm hand to their buttocks. Other folks quiver with delight at the appearance and feel of a paddle, whip, or flogger. For some, bruises make them hot and bothered.

Assessing your sexual life and unlocking your innermost dreams will help alleviate tension, provide you with more confidence, enhance communication between you and your spouse, and discharge healthy biochemicals in your system. What’s not to adore?! Why don’t you mix things up?

A flogger is a device used to flog, or whip a consenting spouse, typically during a BDSM scene. Floggers typically include many tails attached to a firm grip. The tails might be reached from many substances, such as horsehair, rubber, or leather.

In BDSM, the goal is not to hurt but to use pain to improve feeling and sexual enjoyment.

Flogging is something of an art form. When flogging a person, the flogger must begin slowly and gently and take cues from their spouse.

We review 10 of the best floggers, taking into account their material, style and overall benefits. We’ve also included a summary and FAQ to answer any of your burning questions.

Lovehoney Beginner’s Flogger

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The Lovehoney Beginners Flogger is a perfect flogger for those who are just starting out with BDSM and increasing the heat in the bedroom. With a bright purple metallic handle and a fringed style, this is a sexy piece of kit that can be used during foreplay or sexual intercourse. It’s lightweight and not too intense on the skin, and is made with faux leather.

Purple Reins Beginners Flogger

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The Purple Reins Beginners Flogger is a beginners paradise in bright purple and with textured fringing. It’s made completely from nylon weave which gives a different texture when used on impact. It’s easy to store and perfect if you travel often and want something sultry to take on a business trip or a weekend away. It also has a metal D-ring which you can use to attach to your wrist or other sex toys.

Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle

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The Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle is a multi-use sex toy which can be used as a flogger as well as a dildo. If you want to have ultimate control and a unique BDSM experience then this is the perfect toy for you. The handle provides perfect grip but can also be used to provide pleasure. The whole toy is made from silicone, easy to clean and overall a great investment even if you’re at the beginning of your BDSM journey.

Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Flogger

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The Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Flogger is a sultry and sexy flogger that will fulfil all of your BDSM desires. The length of the fringing is 9 inches and the material is vegan friendly, making it accessible to all. The handle is 6 inches long and overall this isn’t just a sexy flogger, it’s durable, easy to clean and overall a brilliant addition to any sex toy collection.

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Flogger

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The DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Flogger is a luxurious accessory that is perfect for experienced users as well as beginners. The softness of the leather works on soft, sharp and quick strokes, but can also work similarly to a feather tickler if that’s the route that you want to go down. Although this isn’t suitable for vegans, it’s an excellent flogger for those who don’t mind using real leather.

Bondage Boutique Slap ‘n’ Tickle 10 Inch Rubber Flogger

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The Bondage Boutique Slap ‘n’ Tickle 10 Inch Rubber Flogger is a gorgeously designed flogger that contains a ton of rubber strands for a difference in texture and a completely different BDSM experience. You can use this for light flogging, or in a similar capacity to a tickler. It’s compact and can be used for travel, too.

Bondage Boutique Advanced Extra Long Suede Flogger

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The Bondage Boutique Advanced Extra Long Suede Flogger is a sensually designed flogger that is made with soft suede but still has the effectiveness of other heavy-hitting floggers on the market. The handle is studded with a wrist loop, and is great even for beginners who want to test it out for some sensory experimentation.

Lovehoney Luxury Bondage Kit (7 Piece)

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The Lovehoney Luxury Bondage Kit is THE perfect kit for those who are looking to explore their senses beyond their wildest imagination. Not only does this contain a gorgeous flogger, but it also contains a collection of other bondage and spanking accessories so you can take your bedroom action to the next level. This is a kit that would still be great for beginners and can be an excellent starting point if you want to test out bondage and BDSM for the first time.

Bondage Boutique Lace Flogger

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The Bondage Boutique Lace Flogger is a flogger designed for a true dominatrix. With a ruby red handle covered in sensual black lace, not only is this visually appealing, but it also works beautifully for soft and hard strokes during BDSM play or bondage. The design is lightweight and it’s also compact and easy to travel with.

Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger

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The Fifty Shades of Grey Flogger is a unique and gorgeously designed flogger. Inspired by Mr Grey himself, the leather fringing is a metallic silver and a black handle with a wrist loop for extra grip. It really stands out in comparison to other bondage accessories on the market due to the unique appearance of it. The leather is faux, but still has the same look and feel as real leather would on the skin. Perfect for slightly rougher play or just sensory exploration.

Summary

Floggers are clearly an amazing sex toy/accessory, but knowing where to start when making a purchase can be daunting, particularly if you’re a beginner. You want to ensure that if this is your first time purchasing, that you’re picking something that is going to work for you.

Below are some things to consider.

Material

If you’re someone who isn’t bothered about the type of material you first use, then we recommend experimenting with silicone or leather as these both produce different sensations. If you’re vegan, however, you’ll need to find a material that is in alignment with your ethos overall. Make sure you pair your flogger with a sexy nurse costume or another outfit that will enhance desire whilst having foreplay/sex.

Size

Believe it or not, size does matter. If you’re someone who travels often, we recommend opting for the smallest flogger as this will be easier to carry around, as well as maintain and clean. If you want to buy something bigger – check that the weight of it won’t feel too straining on your wrist in the specifications.

Please take into consideration that it may be worth having a variety of sizes to hand for the times when your libido isn’t at its highest, but you still want to play a little! Read how to increase your libido here.

Multi-use

There are certain floggers on the market that double up as butt plugs or dildos, and if that’s something that is important to you then we recommend going for these floggers specifically. If you’re someone who really likes to spice things up then you can always purchase a cock ring to use alongside your flogger/dildo combination.

FAQ

How do I use a flogger?

Here is some advice on how to use a flogger safely

1. Be confident your spouse is someone who you trust implicitly before contemplating this type of play. Figure out each other’s likes, dislikes, and boundaries.
2. Take things slowly. Even if you think you understand how you feel, don’t go too hard the first time around.
3. For the spouse who’s control, be sure to develop the encounter gradually. Warm-up their bottom a little, then work up to more significant effect.
4. Listen attentively and make sure you speak before, during, and after. Work out safe words – happy playing!

Which flogger is the best?

This is completely down to personal preference, but if you’re a beginner we recommend going with softer, lighter floggers to ease yourself into this type of play initially. Your preference will definitely change as time develops.

What do I do if I get a rash?

It’s common to have red marks/warm skin after flogging as it’s the equivalent of slapping/hitting but on a much smaller scale. If you have developed a rash this will stay present for longer than 2-3 hours. If you find that the rash persists stop using the flogger and check that you are not allergic to the material. Similar to non-latex condoms, you may need to try an alternative.

Is flogging harmful?

When practiced correctly, no – flogging isn’t harmful. It should be pleasurable for both of you. As previously mentioned, ensure that both of you are comfortable with flogging before beginning, and that you have safe words.